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All Grown Up
By (author): Jami Attenberg
9781328915320 Paperback, Trade English FICTION / Women Mar 13, 2018 Print Run: 25000
$21.99 CAD
Active 5.31 x 8 x 0.58 in | 180 gr 224 pages RGG Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Mariner Books
A National Bestseller

“I read it twice, laughing, cringing, and even tearing up.” — Judy Blume,New York Times

“Powerful . . .All Grown Upis so intimately [and] sharply observed.” —Vogue

“Bravo to Attenberg, who, with hilarity and honesty, tells the story of an adult woman who wants what she wants, not what she’s supposed to want.” —Marie Claire

Who is Andrea Bern? When her dippy therapist asks the question, Andrea knows the right things to say: she’s a designer, a friend, a daughter, a sister. But it’s what she leaves unsaid—she’s alone, a drinker, a former artist, a shrieker in bed, captain of the sinking ship that is her flesh—that feels the most true. Everyone around her seems to have a different idea of what it means to be an adult, though. But when Andrea’s niece finally arrives, born with a heartbreaking ailment, the Bern family is forced to reexamine what really matters. Will this drive them together or tear them apart? Told in gut-wrenchingly honest, mordantly comic vignettes, All Grown Up is a breathtaking display of Jami Attenberg’s powers as a storyteller and a whip-smart examination of one woman’s life, lived entirely on her own terms.

JAMI ATTENBERG is theNew York Times best-selling author of six novels, includingThe MiddlesteinsandSaint Mazie. She has contributed essays to the New York Times Magazine,theWall Street Journal,theGuardian, andLenny Letter, among other publications.

A National Bestseller

A Los Angeles Times Bestseller
A New Atlantic Independent Booksellers Association Bestseller
A Southern California Independent Booksellers Association Bestseller
A Northern California Independent Booksellers Association Bestseller
An IndieNext List Pick
An Amazon Top 100 Best Book of 2017
AKirkusBest Fiction of 2017 Pick

“Deeply enjoyable.” —Marisa Meltzer,Elle

“Bravo to Attenberg, who, with hilarity and honesty, tells the story of an adult woman who wants what she wants, not what she’s supposed to want.” —Marie Claire

All Grown Up[is] a smart, funny/sad and unflinchingly honest novel about a single New Yorker . . . In sparkling prose, [Attenberg] brings this wonderful character so fully to life that after the book ended, I found myself wishing Andrea well as if she were a good friend and wondering what she would do next.”Milwaukee Journal Sentinel

“I read it twice, laughing, cringing, and even tearing up.” — Judy Blume,New York Times

“Addicting and incredibly refreshing . . . Attenberg brings the often upsetting, often comedic realities of life across in poignant, astute vignettes that will live in the reader’s heart for a long, long time.” Travel and Leisure

“Thank you, Jami Attenberg, for pushing back against society’s assumptions about what is allowed to matter in our lives. For giving us a different kind of narrative.All Grown Up is not all fluffy and lovely. It turns out that we have other stories—we single people. We human beings.”Bustle

“Revolutionary . . . [A] perceptive study of love, sacrifice, and what it really means to be an adult.”Tablet

“Jami Attenberg deftly travels inside the head of a 39-year-old woman who has no interest in doing what she’s supposed to do and follows her heart instead of her mind—a story that’s sexy, charming, and impossible to put down.”Newsweek

“Powerful . . .All Grown Upis so intimately [and] sharply observed.”Vogue

“Attenberg is one of our finest contemporary storytellers, and here, with her trademark clever, witty voice, she tackles the age-old question plaguing people of all ages: When do we know if we’re actually all grown up?”Nylon, “50 Books We Can’t Wait to Read in 2017”

“Smart, heartfelt, and really freakin’ funny.”— Sara NoviÄ?,, “25 Most Anticipated Books by Women for 2017”

“Attenberg knows how to make a reader laugh andfeel. This novel takes a hard look at what it means to be a woman living on her own terms.”— Lisa Lucas,Martha Stewart Living, “Page Turners for 2017”

“I read it start to finish in one go. I can’t think of another book I’ve done that about recently.”— Mary Louise Kelly, NPR’sWeekend Edition Sunday

“Attenberg’s fifth novel is her best yet. It’s a super-smart, often extremely funny, sometimes heartbreaking portrait of a 39-year-old, single, child-free heroine in New York City who’s taking her very best shot at living life on her own terms . . . As angry, sad and raw as it is astute, hilarious and hopeful,All Grown Up puts other novels in this vein to shame.” Observer

“There’s something fresh and enquiring in Attenberg’s writing; a gloriously technicolor quality to the voice of her anti-heroine. As is often the hallmark of these projects, much of the humour comes from a wicked brew of truth-telling, honesty and bravery. Of saying the unsayable. In this respect, Attenberg writes with a scalpel, and has presented one of the finest, and most unexpected, character studies you’re likely to read all year.” Irish Independent

“Jami Attenberg will have you laughing, cursing, and ranting right along with her book’s vibrant main character, Andrea—a 39-year-old single New Yorker trying to figure out how to hold her life together. (And trying to figure out what ‘having your life together’ even means.) This book has got serious spunk.”Bustle, “The 9 Best Fiction Books Coming Out in March”

“Amidst the gems of mordant wit,All Grown Up plumbs deeper, darker veins, the ready ease with which sex (and drugs and alcohol) can become coping mechanisms, the specter of being stuck forever as everyone else moves on, ‘architecting new lives.’ Do yourself a favor and buy this book.”— Tomi Obaro,Buzzfeed Books

“Told in smart and funny vignettes,All Grown Up is an examination of what it means to be a woman and a grownup in today’s times. This deceptively short novel will stay with you long after finishing the last page.”PopSugar, “26 Hot New Books You'll Want to Get Your Hands On This Spring”

“With a flair for understatement and crack timing, she makes Andrea Bern immensely flawed but highly resilient and self-aware, capable of reflecting on the lack of ballast in her life without drowning in clichés or Issues. It’s essential to the story that Andrea is unreservedly single; what makes it so good is that she’s absolutely singular.”Vulture,8 Books You Need to Read This March

“With a satirical voice and astounding pathos, Attenberg’s latest protagonist draws readers into the enthralling and thought-provoking world she inhabits, against the backdrop of an important social conversation about contemporary gender roles.”Harpers Bazaar

“Fantastic—and wholly unlike anything else she’s written.”Vol. 1 Brooklyn

“Attenberg’s latest takes on the ridiculous standards we set for ourselves, all with humor and aching relatability.”Pure Wow

“Funny, insightful.”Dallas Morning News

“This is a novel about how to step up when your smug married friend suddenly gets divorced, or when your annoying mum really needs you; about ‘being there’ for people when you don’t even know where ‘there’ is. It has hope, in spades.” Guardian

All Grown Up is a smart, addictive, hilarious and relevant novel.”— Meredith Maran,Washington Post

“Andrea, 39, is totally single. No kids, no men, nothing keeping her from living her life to its full potential, which she does. Until her niece is born with a tragic illness, and Andrea's whole family is forced to confront their values, their lifestyles, and their choices. Told in vignettes,All Grown Up asks what happens after you've got the whole 'adult' thing under control.”Glamour,“Best Books to Read in 2017”

“This is where Attenberg’s brilliance lies: in her ability to mix tenderness with tragicomedy; to find what’s funny in the funereal; to render the dignity of those who fear they’ve lost it . . . Outstanding.”Haaretz

“Funny, tragic and delightful.”Chicago Tribune

“Attenberg captures the kaleidoscopic flow of Andrea’s life in spare and witty vignettes that build to a surprising and moving conclusion.” — Jane Ciabattari,, “Ten Books You Should Read in March”

“Hilarious, courageous and mesmerizing from page one,All Grown Up is a little gem that packs a devastating wallop. It’s that rare book I’m dying to give all my friends so we can discuss it deep into the night. I’m in awe of Jami Attenberg.”— Maria Semple, author ofWhere’d You Go, Bernadette?

“Jami Attenberg’s sharply drawn protagonist, Andrea, has such a riveting, propulsive voice thatAll Grown Up is hard to put down, but I urge you to resist reading it in one sitting. Both the prose and the author’s knowing excavation of one woman’s desires, compromises, strengths and fears deserve closer attention. Like Andrea herself, this novel is beautiful and brutal, intelligent and funny, frank and sexy.”— Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney,New York Timesbest-selling author ofThe Nest

“Jami Attenberg’s Andrea is the most addicting female protagonist voice I have read in years, with her cutting observations on human relationships. This witty journey through a mess of men, female friendships, family and boozy urban existence positions the single girl not as object to be fixed but as contemporary sage and seer: the ultimate witness of truth in love today.”— Melissa Broder, author ofSo Sad Today

“Jami Attenberg has written her frankest, funniest, and most riveting and heartbreaking book yet. In Andrea, she has created a character women will be talking about for years; she has opened the door for us to see ourselves in literature in a new way, writing with skill and fearlessness few others can match.” — Emily Gould, author ofFriendship

“What a voice. Honest and hilarious, unflinching and unapologetic, Jami Attenberg writes what it is to be single, sexual, and child-free by choice. I read the first page ofAll Grown Up and knew the novelist was going to outdo herself. I am happy to report that she most certainly did.”— Helen Ellis, author ofAmerican Housewife

“Jami Attenberg’sAll Grown Up is one part Denis Johnson, one part Grace Paley, but all her. Every sentence pulls taut and glows—electric, gossipy, searing fun that is also a map to how to be more human.”— Alexander Chee, author ofThe Queen of the Night

“Is all life junk—sparkly and seductive and devastating—just waiting to be told correctly by someone who will hold our hand and walk with us a while confirming that what we’re living is true? This is a good proud urban book, a sad and specific blast for the fearless to read. Thank you Jami.”— Eileen Myles, author ofChelsea Girls

All Grown Up is one of those rare books—even the greatest writers often only get one or two in their careers—in which an author’s unique sensibility meets with the story she was born to tell. This fractured, soulful portrait of a determinedly independent woman—a woman whose radical independence often puts her at odds with a misunderstanding society—is vital reading for women and men alike.”— Stefan Merrill Block, author ofThe Story of Forgetting andThe Storm at the Door

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